The Couple’s Guide to Slowing Him Down Together

Techniques
Written By James B. Walther, MA, ABS

Many husbands try to last longer by pushing through sensation alone, but that often makes control worse. This article shows couples how to slow arousal down together without losing connection, momentum, or confidence. You will learn three practical pacing techniques, the most common mistakes that speed ejaculation up, and simple ways a wife can help without making the moment feel clinical. It is a hands-on guide for couples who want better teamwork and better sexual timing.

James B. Walther, MA, ABS

James Walther is the CEO of Walther Ventures and the Walther Institute for Marital Intimacy. A U.S. Army combat medic, he holds degrees in Theology and Philosophy, a Graduate Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy, and is a Certified Sexologist. He is also the English translator of Paul VI: The Divided Pope by Yves Chiron. Through his leadership, James advances initiatives that combine academic rigor, faith, and practical resources to strengthen marriages and enrich the Church’s vision for marital intimacy.

https://JamesBWalther.com
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