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Sex as an Art Form: Why Great Lovers Aren’t Born, They’re Trained
James B. Walther, MA, ABS James B. Walther, MA, ABS

Sex as an Art Form: Why Great Lovers Aren’t Born, They’re Trained

Most people assume sex should just “work.” But years of experience don’t automatically make you better. Great sex, like any art, requires skill, awareness, and intentional practice. If you want to become an exceptional lover, you have to stop guessing and start learning.

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How Often Should You Be Having Sex? (You’re Asking the Wrong Question)
James B. Walther, MA, ABS James B. Walther, MA, ABS

How Often Should You Be Having Sex? (You’re Asking the Wrong Question)

How often should couples have sex? There is no universal number, and focusing on frequency alone often misses the real issue. What actually matters is whether both partners feel satisfied, connected, and desired. If you are unsure where to start, try having sex twice a week for a few months and reassess. If that does not improve things, the problem is likely deeper than frequency.

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